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Old Pals, New Pals & Super Secret Salons


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Old Pals, New Pals & Super Secret Salons

by Kellee Stall on September 11, 2019



Mary Taylor

At the September CreativeMornings featuring John Tosco,  we heard how everything can be our muse.

I agree and as I explore my new city, I am meeting fascinating creatives practically every day. I’ve met people who inspire me and challenge me and help me strategize my role in Charlotte.  

A WALK CAN LEAD TO BEAUTIFUL THINGS

In order to make friends, I have to say “yes” to invitations. In order to get an invite, I have to make the first move and go out. Being a high functioning introvert, sometimes going for a walk is all I can muster up for an outing. But, Charlotte is a friendly town, so going for a walk can lead to beautiful things. 

On a walk earlier this summer, I ran into an old pal, Mary Taylor.

Her nails were beautifully painted like mini tattoos. So, now, because of Mary, I’m in a secret nail club operated by an artist named Nkem Thompson. In order to get into Nkem’s nail club, you have to know someone who’s already in it. Getting an invite to the nail club was wonderful, but the most remarkable thing about this story is that I RAN INTO AN OLD PAL. 

See, I had heard that when you move into a new city it’ll start to feel more like home when you run into someone who knows you by name. I’ve run into a few people at Harris Teeter who I knew from my kid’s school, but since they could not recall my name, it didn’t count. Mary Taylor remembered my name because when I lived in Crystal Lake Illinois, she lived there too. Mary was in charge of hair and makeup for a play I directed years ago at a local college. Fast forward to 2019 and here we are, both living in the same city again without realizing it. 

I was walking through Plaza Midwood as Mary shouted my name from her car window.

Nkem Thompson

THAT WONDERFUL MOMENT WHEN YOU HEAR YOUR FULL NAME

For anyone who calls Charlotte their new home, you understand how wonderful this moment felt. I heard my full name shouted with joyful inflection, loud enough for the hippies at  Common Market to notice. It was marvelous. Perhaps even greater than getting into Nkem’s cool nail club. 

Nkem is a florist and a fabric artist. Her studio sometimes has giant cauldrons filled water and dyed fabric. Her studio is also where she performs her nail magic. Nkem moved to Charlotte from Chicago a few years ago and her mission for the nail club is to cultivate an authentic community. She builds these relationships by viewing her clients as her muse and collaborates with them to create one of a kind nail art. Her friends usually drop by during appointments, and because Nkem is kind, she shares her friends. 

JOHN LOVE LOOKS LIKE AN ANGEL & SWEARS LIKE THE DEVIL

Anyone who’s lived in Charlotte longer than me likely knows who John W. Love Jr is. He’s an actor, artist, guru, poet. He’s a creative legend in Charlotte. I didn’t know anything about John until I googled him later that day. John was at Nkem’s super secret studio when I was getting my nails painted in an art deco design. 

John looks like an angel and swears like the devil. He’s loud and warm, authentic and beautiful. We discussed art, horoscopes, theater, and what it means to be female. He told me that everyone starts life first as a female. It was a lively nail appointment. 

I texted a pal later, asking if she knew who John W. Love, Jr. is. She texted back  “John was a vibrant Charlotte artist who died a little over a year ago.” WHAT?!?!? John W. Love Jr. died A YEAR AGO?!?!?! 

John Love, Jr. CREDIT: Jonathan Cooper

For a solid 7 “Mississippi” count, I imagined I must have been visited by the ghost of John. I lingered in that fantasy. And, to be honest, if you’ve ever met John, it felt probable.

I imagined Nkem’s perspective of my ghost interaction. Her watching me shake hands with the invisible man, then listening to me replying to John’s ghostly, unheard questions. I snapped out of it, googled him, then assured my pal how John was very much alive and we should check out his latest art exhibit at the McColl Center. 

John’s conversation inspired me to create art about female identity. Since I work with found objects, one piece will involve a tampon dispenser. (I’ll keep you posted.)

PSSST! I’LL TELL YOU THE SECRET

As a thank you for following along my journey, I want to extend to you an invitation to join Nkem Thompson’s Nail club! Go to her Instagram account @ thenailclub_clt to sign up and tell her you know Kellee Stall. 

Charlotte is a kind city. Charlotte is a creative city. Charlotte is slowly becoming my city. I look forward to running into you at my next nail appointment. In the meantime, I would love to hear from you in the comments below. How do you make new friends in Charlotte?


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Comments 9

  1. Helene Turpyn
    September 12, 2019 at 10:52 am

    In a place like Charlotte so many of us are transplants, you can’t help but smile in awe when someone tells you they were born here. Personally, I hail from Paris France over 30 years ago and Kellee’s words ring true: How do you meet friends, soul mates, buddies, people you let in your house unannounced, people who share your passions or push you to go further, people who share their secrets. And when you do, these personal connections become the landscape and engine of your new community.

    Reply
    1. Kellee Stall
      September 12, 2019 at 1:32 pm

      Helene, I love what you said how connections are the landscape and engine of our community. Your bravery of moving from Paris to Charlotte inspires me. Thank you for sharing your thoughtful insight.

      Reply
  2. KelleyL
    September 12, 2019 at 11:28 am

    Super helpful thoughts on mixing into a new city and making it start to feel like home … especially for creative introverts!

    Reply
    1. Kellee Stall
      September 12, 2019 at 1:36 pm

      Hello same name friend! It can be exhausting and exhilarating in the same day. I hate and love being a transplant. Thank you for your validation!

      Reply
  3. Tania Joy Gibson Barnett
    September 12, 2019 at 12:03 pm

    I love this!! Everything about it – the new pals, old pals, ghost pals!!! I can’t wait to visit this remarkable city filled with vibrant and varied individuals from many different walks of life!! And Kellee you will have to bring me around to meet all these amazing souls!!! Can’t wait to read about your next encounters!!

    Reply
    1. Kellee Stall
      September 12, 2019 at 1:38 pm

      You sound just as vibrant as the souls mentioned in the article! Yes, come to Charlotte for a visit. There is plenty of room for more vibrance.

      Reply
  4. Deborah Triplett
    September 12, 2019 at 3:12 pm

    First I got an email intro to Kellee by another very creative and kind woman, Laurie Smithwick. Then I was fortunate to meet Kellee while driving around on Yard Art Day looking at art. She yelled out my name and we hugged. Without really knowing her I know her. That comfy feeling of meeting a like minded soul. And soon she’ll be a close neighbor. Ok Kellee hoping this butters you up enough for my intro to the manicure maven. Ha!

    Reply
    1. Kellee Stall
      September 12, 2019 at 6:45 pm

      I am properly buttered! I think we are destined to scare up some fun. Thank you for your warm welcome to the hood! (Shout out to Laurie Smithwick for the connection!)

      Reply
  5. Peggy B
    September 12, 2019 at 9:43 pm

    Next time I see you, wherever that is, I will shout your full name with enthusiasm. ?
    Good thoughts.

    Reply

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